Love it or hate it for whatever reason you may have, there are 3 very valuable lessons we can learn from the movie American Sniper. No, it is not how to be better at shooting people or better at tactics in battle or war, but it is much more about the attitude and the mindset that Chris Kyle, “American Sniper” displayed.
Serving a Purpose Greater than Yourself – If you know anything about the SEAL Training, you know that they intentionally put these recruits through absolute hell. Sleep deprivation, limited rations, brutal and odd extended climate trainings both in the water and on land… The “washout” rate is incredibly high, however for those that endure they develop a mindset, utilize an internal GOD given drive and actually LIVE to serve their fellow man, teammate and this country. The honor that graduation brings is supernatural and the ones that live this life, live it to serve a purpose greater than themselves, greater than their team/unit and greater than the military.
How do we apply this? Business Coaches everywhere for decades have been teaching and preaching “find your passion”, “follow your heart and live your dream” or “if you love what you do you will never quit”. All are valid points, key ingredients and very useful affirmations.
I am going to submit to you here though that few entrepreneurs or even people, have the ability, given our society, public school ideology and other ancillary influences, to actually be capable of conceiving a “dream” or finding a “passion” large enough much less that they can allow to consume and drive them to mastery so they serve a purpose greater than themselves.
To take this even one step further, despite the catchy phrases, cool buzz words and fancy weekend courses – most of the “coaches” operating in today’s expert space of personal development do not have this ability for themselves and have not taken the long hard road to study, learn and develop this very powerful mindset for themselves by taking in years of neuroscience, psychology, human performance and high performance studies. Many have not even been a part or played a role on a “team” of any kind that this would have begun that journey. For success, real success… This ABSOLUTELY MATTERS.
“Aim small, miss small” –
So many people wanting to teach entrepreneurs and business owners how to improve their marketing, their message and their results… It makes me laugh when I talk to folks about this, because it is a simple concept with a HUGE upside – “Aim small, miss small”…. The proof that this concept works for business is all around us when we sit and discuss our “target market”. The big corporate giants have been using it for years and their profits keep going through the roof.
So why is this so hard for entrepreneurs and small business to grasp? “Aim small, miss small” for our application just simply means “know your target audience, right down to the point where your message speaks directly to ONE Person, to solve ONE Problem (that is worth solving for that ONE Person) with ONE Product or service that you or your business does BEST. I mean, have YOU ever seen a Coke-a-Cola commercial that had Diet Coke, Coke Classic and Dasani water being promoted/advertised at the same time? Case in point!
Simple, yet I offer that 95% or more of all small business owners and entrepreneurs don’t get it and struggle due to taking the traditional “shotgun” approach. With many still hiring marketing and advertising “professionals” that all they know is the shotgun approach… Funny isn’t it?
Defining Your Life Worth Fighting For – At first glance you are going to say this is the same as number 1… I am going to suggest that we change the perspective here just a bit, think back to the ending scene of the movie “American Sniper” for a moment. In that scene Chris and Taya shared a powerful banter where she verbalized how proud she was that he had fought so hard to overcome PTSD and was becoming the husband, father and community leader that the country, state and community which he served needed so desperately. His comment back was “You (our family) were worth fighting for…” This is a personal journey. One that we all must want and walk it for ourselves. Being able to “define the life worth fighting for” for yourself is often difficult, but very rewarding.
Now, look at yourself. What are you doing to improve you? What is it in your life that is that “something worth fighting for”? Yea, I know the automatic response is my kids, my wife, my family and friends…. But are you honestly and truly doing anything to improve yourself so that you can transcend to become that person in your definition? Become the “hero” to your family. The “superman” your wife/husband dreamed about marrying as well as your kids dream about you being…. The leader that our world and society are longing for…
My point here is that Chris Kyle, did whatever it took to be the best “him” he could be, for himself as well as those around him. He, like all of us had his mountains to climb, he struggled with his drive and determination to never quit until he won. He was humble, didn’t do it for the recognition. It was something that, I am all but certain, when he set out, probably unsure and uncertain where the journey would take him, but it was that drive and desire to never quit and win – be the best him, something that was instilled by his father that in the end defined him.
What’s defining you?
I am the 10xMind, Bryan Kiser. I live BOLD, with purpose and GRATITUDE by serving others FEARLESSLY. Time to go improve my skills…. Surf’s up!
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